Are You Serious?!

So I take dinner to a widow in my neighborhood once in a while, and recently, when she was in the hospital, we took care of her annoying little dog for over a week. As a thank you, she dropped by this morning with a card and a nice gift card to Target. Very thoughtful, you say, right? Of course. That is, until she stands up to leave, pats my stomach and tells me, "You've got to do something about that". What?! Are you kidding me? Who says stuff like that? I just had a baby 8 weeks ago, and even if I hadn't, who says stuff like that? Like I don't know that I've got a tummy on me right not. Duh. Of course, I didn't say any of this to her, though in retrospect, I think I should have asked her why she would say something like that and tell her it was hurtful. But I didn't. I told her I was working on it, that my legs are so sore from working out, that I belong to the gym, etc. I think in the end, she realized her error, because she started telling me how thin my arms and legs are. But it was too late by then. Damage done. ::Sob:: I know I'm fat. It plagues my every morning when I'm trying to find something to wear. Ah well, a small price to pay for precious Margaret. But seriously, who says stuff like that?